People should settle more. Paul Skallas is on to something here and it’s something my wife and I talk about a lot. Marriages have thrived for thousands of years that were not bonded by temporary Eros feelings. When I hear people talk about being single and having trouble finding their person, I just assume they’re evaluating the wrong signals around compatibility and long-term companionship. It’s great to feel lovey-dovey for your spouse but I also feel lots of other things too. All of them carry me through.